• PowerPoint Night: Your Lore

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Join us on September 18 at The Soft Spot for an evening of lore and friendship! 🧡💿📂  Bring a 5-7 minute presentation about your backstory. Think: Did you have a Beanie Baby collection? Did you have an evil childhood bestie? Was your MySpace name xCoolEmoGirl1995x? PowerPoint Night wants YOU! Sign up here: forms.gle/6dyBzACE6S4Ccrnm8

  • Coffee with Comrades

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    ☕️ PITTSBURGH: Coffee with Comrades on Saturday, September 19! Calling all local Pittsburgh activists, organizers, and community members concerned with the current material conditions of the working class! Join us for coffee and conversation with comrades from the Pittsburgh PSL on how we can effectively unite and organize the working class to create positive change […]

  • Booty, Ahoy! A Talk Like a Pirate Day Fundraiser

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Ahoy, maties! We'll be havin' a show on Talk Like a Pirate Day! Pay what ye can, all booty collected will be given to harm reduction resources in the Pittsburgh area. A worthy cause, if there ever was. So avast! Get ready for a night of nautical nonsense and sea farin' follies! All proceeds go […]

    $5 – $20
  • TPARTY TBOY Mixer & Clothing Swap

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Happy September, friends!! Can’t wait to see you all again on Monday, September 21st for our next Mixer and Clothing Swap!! Come meet and mingle with other transmasc queers. Please bring gently used clothes and accessories to swap for something new. We’re looking for a volunteer to help us take leftover donations to QMNTY Center […]

  • Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup

    Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    We are thrilled to announce the start of the PITTSBURGH T4T LEATHER MEETUP, co-facilitated by Patience Insight (@patiencepgh) and Theo Goblin (@theogoblin) and hosted at The Soft Spot! We hope you’ll join us at the end of the month for our first evening of leather together. This is a free, sober event with a focus […]

  • Late Bloomers

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States +1 more

    Coming to the queer community a little late can leave you feeling like an imposter. It can make you feel disconnected and grieve missing those early connections. This group is for chatting, processing, and sharing the knowledge we’ve gained so late. Second adolescence, here we come! We’re gathering to hang out, be gay, and celebrate. […]

  • MonsterF**ckers

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    MONSTER F**KERS TICKETS ARE ON SALE NOW!!! 🧪👻⚡️🎃💀🫀🔪🪓❤️‍🔥 We are so excited to bring this show to life and finally collaborate with the Soft Spot!!!!! 🖤 Cum see all your favorite horror movie monsters to kick off spooky season with us 😈 Featuring performances by: Amoxie Villain Bettie Dagger Effie Vescent Evie Sanguine Momma Gravy […]

    $15
  • Sounds Gay: Storytime with Gay Fieri

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    IT IS ALMOST SEPTEMBER STORYTIME! Join us on September 26th at the Soft Spot for drag storytime! Get ready for stories, dancing, AND CRAFTS! 📍The Soft Spot 📆 Saturday, September 26th ⏰️ 11:30 AM You don't wanna miss this month's craft. Come to storytime to find out what it is!

  • Sing Along Night

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Sing along to gay movies all night! Rocky's Horror, REPO!, and Reefer Madness! Saturday, September 26th at 5:30pm

  • EmBody: Burlesque Brunch

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    EmBody: Burlesque Brunch is a day time sensual soirée fully loaded with an all new Beautiful BIPOC performance cast!! Join us for an intimate variety Brunch showcase celebrating Black and Brown Queers, and multidisciplinary excellence. This next fundraising event is bringing you burlesque, vogue, vocalists, and a set by a very special DJ to top […]

  • Radar: Sapphic Singles Night

    Radar: Sapphic Singles Night
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Industry and otherwise, a Monday mixer hits the Spot. 7-9pm. Dancing, drinks, and conversation. Tunes by DJ Oatmilk Princess. Over in time for bed for those who need sleep, afters at Mary's for those who aren't ready for the night to end. Who's on your radar?

  • Queer Craft Vendor Mixer

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    We're excited to announce our first vendor mixer! Come hang out with us, ask us questions, and meet with your fellow queer artists and crafters. We'll also have a small supply swap -- please bring up to five items with you to swap! Any leftovers will be taken to Creative Reuse! Thank you to our […]

  • Soft Launch: A Monthly Poetry Reading

    Soft Launch: A Monthly Poetry Reading
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Welcome to my reading series for loud mouths! Each month we'll have featured readers and, as always, an open mic will follow. Everyone is welcome — but dykes rule! You never have to shrink in this space. Join us at the Soft Spot! After August, we will be gathering the first Thursday of each month: […]

  • Reel Q Pittsburgh 41st LGBTQ+ Film Festival: Short & Sweet Shorts

    Reel Q Pittsburgh 41st LGBTQ+ Film Festival
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    A playful collection of queer shorts about love, lust, connection, and all the weird moments in between. The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Ave, Pittsburgh, PA 15206 October 3, 2026 12:30 - 2:00 PM Baker's Boy Six months after small-town transmasc baker Sam starts using testosterone gel, they begin to notice that everyone they know is […]

  • Reel Q Pittsburgh 41st LGBTQ+ Film Festival: In A Whisper

    Reel Q Pittsburgh 41st LGBTQ+ Film Festival
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    A playful collection of queer shorts about love, lust, connection, and all the weird moments in between. The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Ave, Pittsburgh, PA 15206 October 3, 2026 2:30 - 4:00 PM In a Whisper Back in Tunisia for her uncle's funeral, Lilia reunites with a family that knows nothing about her life in […]

  • Phone Hygiene Workshop

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    🛁🧼📱✨ Rub a dub dub!! Need help cleaning up your phone and making it more secure? Join us 10/4 at the Soft Spot for a FREE hour-long workshop on improving your phone hygiene and digital safety. Stick around afterward to apply what you’ve learned and cowork your way through it with friends. Taught by the […]

  • Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group

    Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    What to expect: Open writing group for queer adults — for poets, playwrights, novelists, and everyone else! All skill levels welcome. Come share your work, get support or critiques, and make new friends. Where: The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA When: every 2nd Thursday, 7-9pm Hosted by Peach

  • BOSOM BUDDIES: A TITilating Fundraiser

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    A show all about BOOBS! Show us your breast work! From itty bitty titties to big ol’ knockers and beyond. Drag, burlesque, live singing, puppetry, circus skills... if you got it, flaunt it! This show will be hosted at The Soft Spot on Saturday, October 10th at 8pm Co-produced by Gay Fieri (@youcancallmegay) & Emily […]

  • Neurospice Girls Silent Book Club

    Neurospice Girls Silent Book Club
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    ✨Starting in June✨ Roxie will be hosting a Silent Book Club on the second Tuesday of each month at the Soft Spot. Bring your own book, sit with other cutie pie queers, have a tasty NA beverage, and enjoy some parallel play. How it works: •B.Y.O. Book •No assigned readings •All book formats welcome •All […]

  • Silent Book Club at the Soft Spot

    Neurospice Girls Silent Book Club
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Roxie will be hosting a Silent Book Club on the second Tuesday of each month at the Soft Spot. Bring your own book, sit with other cutie pie queers, have a tasty NA beverage, and enjoy some parallel play. How it works: •B.Y.O. Book •No assigned readings •All book formats welcome •All events at free […]

  • Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout

    Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    SIT, STAY, PLAY IS BAAAACK! and we got dates set up for the rest of 2026! 🎉🎉 •August 22nd •September 24th — birthday pawty! •October 22nd •November 25th — pup potluck •December 27th got some cool things planned for later dates this year. i hope to see u there!! featuring: •video games •BYOD Magic/Pokémon games/trades […]

  • Radar: Sapphic Singles Night

    Radar: Sapphic Singles Night
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Industry and otherwise, a Monday mixer hits the Spot. 7-9pm. Dancing, drinks, and conversation. Tunes by DJ Oatmilk Princess. Over in time for bed for those who need sleep, afters at Mary's for those who aren't ready for the night to end. Who's on your radar?