• Shrek Night

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Hey now, you're an all-star come watch a movie get gaaaay. Hey now, you're a rock star, do the "shrek off" get *A SUPER COOL HANDCRAFTED SHREK TROPHY AND BRAGGING RIGHTS FOREVER* Movie watch at 5pm Karaoke at 6:30pm Shrek off at 7pm Drag Show at 7:30pm Prizes from 5-9pm Drink specials from 5-9pm ✨️ […]

    $10
  • Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group

    Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    What to expect: Open writing group for queer adults — for poets, playwrights, novelists, and everyone else! All skill levels welcome. Come share your work, get support or critiques, and make new friends. Where: The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA When: every 2nd Thursday, 7-9pm Hosted by Peach

  • Splat Film Fest: A Night of Queer Pittsburgh Shorts

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Save the date! Friday, November 13th 7PM at the Soft Spot, Olivia Cunnally will be premiering her new short "Party At My Ex’s" during the Splat Film Fest (a night of fun queer short films!)alongside other shorts by: Sandyloaf Lyra Laurelei Nat Nie Alejo Barandiaran The event is free, but we’ll be accepting donations for […]

  • Clothing Swap at the Soft Spot

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Vendors and joy all over the street. At the Soft Spot, we're hosting a clothing swap and some local jewelry makers! November 14th, 12-5pm

  • BOGO: A Drag Show

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    What is better than 1 amazing human in a number? 2!! We love a bargain!! Join us Saturday, November 14th, at the Soft Spot for BOGO: A Drag Show featuring all duets! This incredible cast is filled with some of the most iconic duos in Pittsburgh. Speaking of Icons, did you know that November is […]

    $15
  • Discovering Red Teas

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Earl Grey. English Breakfast. Masala Chai. The tea at the base of all of these is Red Tea, called Black Tea in the US and Europe. This style of processing is usually the first kind of tea that Americans encounter in their lives and sets the tone for their understanding of and feelings toward tea. […]

    $20
  • Stonewall Sports Social Scene: Movie Night

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    🎬🍿 Lights. Camera. Queer Movie Club! 🌈 Our next movie night is coming up! We'll be watching Nimona. 📅 Wednesday, November 18 ⏰ 7 PM 📍 The Soft Spot Snacks and drinks are available for purchase, but the movie viewing is FREE! Bring a friend, grab a seat, and settle in for a fun evening with […]

  • Lesbi Friends Monthly Mingle: Friendsgiving

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Join us for a potluck at our favorite sapphic cafe! Thursday, November 19th, 7-9PM The Soft Spot — 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA

  • Cirquqe De Tarot: Tarot-Themed Drag & Burlesque

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    What else is November for other than getting the family together!! (and birthdays??) Join us! The Circus is in town!! Cirque De Tarot is having our Haus showcase & celebrating my birthday! Come to the Soft Spot for an enchanting night of tarot, drag, clowning, and so much more! Cirque De Tarot is a story […]

    $15 – $40
  • Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup

    Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    We are thrilled to announce the start of the PITTSBURGH T4T LEATHER MEETUP, co-facilitated by Patience Insight (@patiencepgh) and Theo Goblin (@theogoblin) and hosted at The Soft Spot! We hope you’ll join us at the end of the month for our first evening of leather together. This is a free, sober event with a focus […]

  • Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout

    Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    SIT, STAY, PLAY IS BAAAACK! and we got dates set up for the rest of 2026! 🎉🎉 •August 22nd •September 24th — birthday pawty! •October 22nd •November 25th — pup potluck •December 27th got some cool things planned for later dates this year. i hope to see u there!! featuring: •video games •BYOD Magic/Pokémon games/trades […]

  • Kathryn Joyce Dickey’s Big Queer Capitalistic Christmas / 27th Birthday Party & Shark Tank-Style Allegheny County Silly Goofy Proposal Pitch Simulator

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Friendly reminder that this insanity of a Christmas party is on Friday, November 27th! Start planning your pitch today. Though the power of all my friends being the coolest people ever and the magic of a commercial, capitalistic Christmas theme, we will give the Soft Spot its most lucrative night yet ahead of the holiday […]

  • Radar: Sapphic Singles Night

    Radar: Sapphic Singles Night
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Industry and otherwise, a Monday mixer hits the Spot. 7-9pm. Dancing, drinks, and conversation. Tunes by DJ Oatmilk Princess. Over in time for bed for those who need sleep, afters at Mary's for those who aren't ready for the night to end. Who's on your radar?

  • Lesbi Friends Queer Book Club

    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Join the Lesbi Friends Queer Book Club on Monday, November 30th at 6:30pm at the Soft Spot! Book TBA — check back later for book announcement!

  • Loud Mouth: A Monthly Poetry Reading

    Soft Launch: A Monthly Poetry Reading
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Welcome to my reading series for loud mouths! Each month we'll have featured readers and, as always, an open mic will follow. Everyone is welcome — but dykes rule! You never have to shrink in this space. Join us at the Soft Spot! After August, we will be gathering the first Thursday of each month: […]

  • Silent Book Club at the Soft Spot

    Neurospice Girls Silent Book Club
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Roxie will be hosting a Silent Book Club on the second Tuesday of each month at the Soft Spot. Bring your own book, sit with other cutie pie queers, have a tasty NA beverage, and enjoy some parallel play. How it works: •B.Y.O. Book •No assigned readings •All book formats welcome •All events at free […]

  • Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group

    Ink Slingers: A Queer Writing Group
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    What to expect: Open writing group for queer adults — for poets, playwrights, novelists, and everyone else! All skill levels welcome. Come share your work, get support or critiques, and make new friends. Where: The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA When: every 2nd Thursday, 7-9pm Hosted by Peach

  • Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout

    Sit, Stay, Play: A Sober Furry Hangout
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    SIT, STAY, PLAY IS BAAAACK! and we got dates set up for the rest of 2026! 🎉🎉 •August 22nd •September 24th — birthday pawty! •October 22nd •November 25th — pup potluck •December 27th got some cool things planned for later dates this year. i hope to see u there!! featuring: •video games •BYOD Magic/Pokémon games/trades […]

  • Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup

    Pittsburgh T4T Leather Meetup
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    We are thrilled to announce the start of the PITTSBURGH T4T LEATHER MEETUP, co-facilitated by Patience Insight (@patiencepgh) and Theo Goblin (@theogoblin) and hosted at The Soft Spot! We hope you’ll join us at the end of the month for our first evening of leather together. This is a free, sober event with a focus […]

  • Radar: Sapphic Singles Night

    Radar: Sapphic Singles Night
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Industry and otherwise, a Monday mixer hits the Spot. 7-9pm. Dancing, drinks, and conversation. Tunes by DJ Oatmilk Princess. Over in time for bed for those who need sleep, afters at Mary's for those who aren't ready for the night to end. Who's on your radar?

  • Silent Book Club at the Soft Spot

    Neurospice Girls Silent Book Club
    The Soft Spot 5407 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA, United States

    Roxie will be hosting a Silent Book Club on the second Tuesday of each month at the Soft Spot. Bring your own book, sit with other cutie pie queers, have a tasty NA beverage, and enjoy some parallel play. How it works: •B.Y.O. Book •No assigned readings •All book formats welcome •All events at free […]