Events

Faerie Fae x Mary's Goth Nite 80's EBM Industrial Synthwave/pop Darkwave Coldwave New Wave All the Waves! All Things Goth! Masking highly encouraged! Tuesday, October 13th 9PM to 1AM Mary's No cover 21+

Deliberation of afterlife beliefs & grief •All belief systems (or none) are welcome! •Learn the role the afterlife plays in grieving and identity. •Share your diverse views with peers and connect! •At the Soft Spot — a safe queer space! 5401 Penn Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15206 Wednesday, October 14th 4:30-5:30pm  

We have one spooky system with Erin (@salter.erin) prepped! We have space for two more one-shots! Let us know if you'd like to DM! Wednesday, October 14th 6-9pm At the Soft Spot

We encourage you to continue to participate in our monthly support group meetings. Our schedule for this year is as follows: Virtual 6:30 – 8:00 pm, 2nd Wednesday of each month except June (see below): January 14th February 11th March 11th April 8th May 13th June – no meeting (Pride month) July – 8th August […]

This month, we are discussing If Beale Street Could Talk by James Baldwin. About the book: A stunning love story about a young Black woman whose life is torn apart when her lover is wrongly accused of a crime — "a moving, painful story, so vividly human and so obviously based on reality that it […]

And then, he took the cup 🍷, gave it to his disciples, and said 🎤, “It’s finally time to celebrate my JESUS YEAR birthday!! Come feast with me, sing songs, and perhaps even betray me with a kiss!” 🔔DINGALINGALINGALINGALING🔔 In lieu of gifts, I would like your presence! Come eat, drink, sing, and be merry, […]

Join the Coven of Misfits with their favorite ghouls and creatures for a night of drag, burlesque, and more! Featuring performances by: Roary Storm Malacunt LaFoole Lola May Lye The Spirit Leshy Divine Eva Van Helsing Abel N. Willing Frostee D Tipps Skelastic Book Fairy Maxxx Massacre Ser Entity Ramona Ripley Jami Starling This event […]

We are happy to announce that registration is open for the 2026 TransPride YOUniting Health & Wellness Conference. We are hard at work building the final agenda right now. LGBTQ2SIA+ people come from all walks of life, all races and ethnicities, all ages, all socio-economic statuses, all parts of the United States, and from all […]

Join us for our next Trans Meet Up at Esoterica in Wheeling! 🏳️‍⚧️ This month, we’re talking about mental health and wellbeing for trans and gender-diverse people, with a local therapist sharing affirming resources, guidance, and support. Whether you’re looking for community, connection, resources, or just a place to hang out with folks who get […]

This month, we'll be discussing Manhunt by Gretchen Felker-Martin. About the book: Beth and Fran spend their days traveling the ravaged New England coast, hunting feral men and harvesting their organs in a gruesome effort to ensure they'll never face the same fate. Robbie lives by his gun and one hard-learned motto: other people aren't […]

This October, we are going to take apart stuffed animals and sew them back together into creepy cute creations. They're... alive! Join us for Queer Craft Night: Frankenpets, where we’ll rip apart stuffed animals and bring them back to life with stitches, LEDs, and motors. Whether creepy, cute, or somewhere in between, your creation will […]

House of Pasta is a munch exploring and celebrating whimsy in kink. We will be playing ice breakers and discussing new ways to approach what might otherwise seem daunting in things like play, power dynamics, and sexual exploration. Bring your curiosity and imagination! Thursday, October 15 7-9pm At the Soft Spot

👻😈 FREAK SHOW 2026 🎃🔪 Join us at the Blue Moon Bar on Thursday, October 15th from 8–10pm for PGH Dyke March’s second annual Freak Show Fundraiser! Yes, that’s right before Steel Carabiner ❤️‍🔥 This year, we’re raising money for Steel City Food Not Bombs to help feed the community this holiday season! 📣 LOCAL […]