For decades, Reader’s Digest has featured a monthly article called, “The Most Unforgettable Character I’ve Ever Known.” Subscribers are invited to submit a write-up about a memorable individual, who helped to shape their lives. Well, I have two candidates for that column, but would like you to read about it here first. Pittsburgh has lost two dear friends this year. These gentlemen were two of the most unforgettable characters I’ve ever known, and they will be remembered by many for years to come. They were the good old boys of our Pittsburgh gay history.
David Morrow
1945 – 2009
David Marrow, long time owner of Pegasus and Sidekicks, both on Liberty Avenue, was king of the bar scene, loved by patrons, empolyees, and drag queens alike. I didn’t know David while he owned the bar; I just recently became close with him. He always had a coy smirk on his face, ready to tease, prank, or joke with you. He had a dry sense of humor and could make a whole room laugh at once. He had two accessories: cigarettes and Absolut Vodka, on the rocks. He was a man who you could talk to for hours about nothing and everything at the same time. To get you to believe some crazy story, he would mesmerize you with his charm. A member of the Tavern Guild, David was among our pioneers, who shaped our community. His donations to support our causes are untallyable. He was a gift to all who knew him.
Robert Eppinger
1943 – 2009
Robert Eppinger, lovingly known as the “Duchess of Ellsworth,” was a man before you would fall in love with the moment you met him. I personally met him several years ago at Persad’s Celebrate Life, Celebrate Art benefit, and I will never forget it. It was like the opening scene of Auntie Mame. I was standing at the bar, and this well-dressed gentleman approached me and introduced himself. “I am Bob Eppinger, and you are… ?” I told him my name, and we chatted for a while. No one could tell a story like Bob, and he had one about everything! That evening, he guided me through the crowd and introduced me to so many people. Before our conversation was over he took me by the arm and looked at me and said, “You must call me mother.” And, I did — from that day on. He’s hosted most of Pittsburgh at his beautiful home on Ellsworth Avenue, which he shared with his partner, Stephen Totter. Their home had more Champagne in it that a liquor store! Many fondly remember Bob walking through Shadyside, always smiling. He was the life of the party wherever he went.